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51. Chi Kung

Chi Kung or working with energy.

I’ve recently had one or two people ask about the Chi Kung we do in class, so I thought I’d make a few comments about it.

I should start by saying that Chi Kung (or Qigong) is very ancient.  It pre-dates any of the philosophical or religious traditions that have adopted its use.  It was practiced by early Taoists (which was originally a non-religious philosophy) and then by Buddhists.  Over the centuries Taoism and Buddhism appear to have cross fertilised each other until the Taoists become more religious and the Buddhists adopted much of the typically Chinese philosophy, developing the Zen approach, but during their evolution, both developed increasingly more complex Chi Kung.

Chi Kung has not only various roots but also many branches.  These branches differ according to the intended goal of its implementation.  Some Chi Kung has been developed to enhance health, some to extend life, some to achieve spiritual enlightenment and some to aid in martial arts.

While we tend to think primarily of Chi Kung in terms of the physical exercises, one should understand that it is an approach to the way energy is created, stored and used within the body.  In much the way that in Western physics we might see that energy can be in the form of heat, light, electro/magnetic or stored as potential energy etc, Chi Kung would describe differing types of energy within the body and, much like as in physics, these can be converted from one form to another.  If you rub your hands together you are using chemical energy that you converted from the food you ate, (which previously converted it from light energy,) into heat; your hands will get warm.  So, on a cold day, when you rub your hands together, you are still warming them from the energy that the sun dispensed months earlier.

When we use a heart monitor, we are, of course, actually measuring the electrical charge that operates in the muscles of the heart.  We understand that every atom in our body is simply moving energy held in a pattern.  In a way, as modern western thinkers, we are wonderfully equipped with a paradigm suitable to grasp Chi Kung.

The goal of the Chi Kung practiced will change its emphasis.  For example, the use of herbs and spices will be relevant in some medically orientated traditions.  Some practitioners, with a view to longevity, will be strict vegans.  Those seeking spiritual enlightenment might strictly control their frequency of sexual activity; to enable them to focus that energy into mediations.  Others may need to isolate themselves as a hermit for a period of time.  So, Chi Kung can involve: how you breath, how you eat, how you move and how you think.  It can be part of your physical exercise or part of your religious discipline.  

Chi Kung has travelled a similar path to that of Yoga, though not always in the same direction.  While Yoga began as a religious practice, to help channel prana (Simplistically you can think of prana as Sanskrit for Chi) and has become, for many, simply an exercise for health, Chi Kung began as an exercise for health and was acquired into religious traditions, although it is now becoming increasingly separated again.  In the same way that many people find Yoga beneficial without it having any religious connotations, Chi Kung appears to have begun that way and is now coming full circle.

Chi Kung

I’ve recently had one or two people ask about the Chi Kung we do in class, so I thought I’d make a few comments about it.

I should start by saying that Chi Kung (or Qigong) is very ancient.  It pre-dates any of the philosophical or religious traditions that have adopted its use.  It was practiced by early Taoists (which was originally a non-religious philosophy) and then by Buddhists.  Over the centuries Taoism and Buddhism appear to have cross fertilised each other until the Taoists become more religious and the Buddhists adopted much of the typically Chinese philosophy, developing the Zen approach, but during their evolution, both developed increasingly more complex Chi Kung.

Chi Kung has not only various roots but also many branches.  These branches differ according to the intended goal of its implementation.  Some Chi Kung has been developed to enhance health, some to extend life, some to achieve spiritual enlightenment and some to aid in martial arts.

While we tend to think primarily of Chi Kung in terms of the physical exercises, one should understand that it is an approach to the way energy is created, stored and used within the body.  In much the way that in Western physics we might see that energy can be in the form of heat, light, electro/magnetic or stored as potential energy etc, Chi Kung would describe differing types of energy within the body and, much like as in physics, these can be converted from one form to another.  If you rub your hands together you are using chemical energy that you converted from the food you ate, (which previously converted it from light energy,) into heat; your hands will get warm.  So, on a cold day, when you rub your hands together, you are still warming them from the energy that the sun dispensed months earlier.

When we use a heart monitor, we are, of course, actually measuring the electrical charge that operates in the muscles of the heart.  We understand that every atom in our body is simply moving energy held in a pattern.  In a way, as modern western thinkers, we are wonderfully equipped with a paradigm suitable to grasp Chi Kung.

The goal of the Chi Kung practiced will change its emphasis.  For example, the use of herbs and spices will be relevant in some medically orientated traditions.  Some practitioners, with a view to longevity, will be strict vegans.  Those seeking spiritual enlightenment might strictly control their frequency of sexual activity; to enable them to focus that energy into mediations.  Others may need to isolate themselves as a hermit for a period of time.  So, Chi Kung can involve: how you breath, how you eat, how you move and how you think.  It can be part of your physical exercise or part of your religious discipline.  

Chi Kung has travelled a similar path to that of Yoga, though not always in the same direction.  While Yoga began as a religious practice, to help channel prana (Simplistically you can think of prana as Sanskrit for Chi) and has become, for many, simply an exercise for health, Chi Kung began as an exercise for health and was acquired into religious traditions, although it is now becoming increasingly separated again.  In the same way that many people find Yoga beneficial without it having any religious connotations, Chi Kung appears to have begun that way and is now coming full circle.

When is Kung Fu not Kung Fu?

Because many people like things to be neat with everything clearly in its place, boxes ticked and flow charts precise, they can feel uncomfortable when things are muddled.  This is often the case with history and the history of martial arts is no exception.  Someone recently commented that they hadn’t heard of Okinawan Kung Fu, in reference to Kung Fu teachers, teaching Nunchucks; widely considered to be of Okinawan origin.  History often involves people with a particular bias looking at infinitesimally small amounts of evidence and trying to make sense of things with hundreds of years and thousands of miles of separation.  For example, it is generally believed that Okinawan martial arts developed from Chinese martial arts over the course of hundreds of years of trade, cultural and political interaction.  Modern Japanese Karate styles have evolved, it is generally accepted, from Okinawan martial arts, for similar reasons.   These are likely true, but are hugely over simplified stories of course.  I’m often asked things like, where did nunchucks originate, as if there were a definitive answer, but the truth is that if you grow rice you use a tool to beat the grains to remove the husks.  If you are an agricultural community, under a military occupation and aren’t permitted to carry weapons, you learn to use your agricultural hand tools as weapons.  This explains the origins of many weapons.  To ask who invented the nunchucks is like asking who invented the axe.  Similarly, I’ve heard people say, isn’t that kick a karate kick or is that wrist lock from this or that style.  I could answer that I personally learned a particular technique within the context of training in a particular style, but that’s all one can say.  I’m pretty sure that Pankration, a martial art style used in Greece over two thousand years ago would have used kicks that I learned from Taekwondo.  I expect the elbow strike I learned in Kempo is just like one use by a Neanderthal guy living in Spain, 40 thousand years ago.  It’s a safe bet that any technique that is effective, has multiple, parallel evolutionary stories.  Do you think the idea to hit with the side of the hand was only thought of in the far east, or that making a fist and hitting with the knuckles was first tried in England?  Not only does virtually every technique originate from all over the world, but the interchange between cultures is always more extensive than we tend to imagine.  Next time you hear someone insist that a particular group of people invented a particular technique, bare in mind that the earliest evidence of the use of acupuncture is from over 5000 years ago in southern Europe.

35. Unconscious messaging

There is a certain conversation that I have often had with people after they have been training for a while; anything from a few months to a couple of years.

The conversations I’m referring to, all started with a student saying something like “One of the reasons I wanted to learn Kung Fu was that on several occasions I got beaten up / bullied / threatened / picked on, and now that I know I would be able to deal with a violent confrontation, I’ve had no trouble”.

Invariably people find this confusing because as far as they are concerned, they aren’t behaving any differently.  They aren’t five stone of muscle bigger, they haven’t got “I do Kung Fu” tattooed to their foreheads or anything, so why, they wonder, are people behaving differently towards them?

The answer of course is that, at an entirely unconscious level, they are behaving differently and, at an equally unconscious level, others notice.

Unless someone is deliberately doing some quite sophisticated method acting, most of the messages we convey to others are unconscious.  We all understand that our body language will demonstrate a bewildering number of things about us and because we get that, we can often deliberately change aspects of our body language, but even the most expert actor will only be able to fake a few details.  At a simple level, we might try to look more confident, threatening or relaxed in a particular social situation.  At a more sophisticated level we might deliberately mimic a person’s body posture, breathing rhythm or speech cadence to make them feel more at ease with us.  But there is a limit to what can be done with the deliberate adoption of such techniques.  This is usually evident when we become aware that someone is not being sincere.  We observe someone and think, ‘wow he’s trying hard to look hard’ or ‘relaxed’ or ‘friendly’ or whatever.  We often see through someone’s attempt at deliberate manipulation of their body language, particularly if we are looking for it.  Of course, sometimes we are easily fooled because we want to believe the message we are being given; we want to believe that the person talking to us likes us, for example.

It is because most of the details that we observe in another are unconsciously observed that we are usually unaware of their complexity.  Let me point out some of the more obvious factors first.  The angle or set of the spine and the position of the head, the position of shoulders and hands, where exactly the eyes are looking and how steadily, the tone and texture of the skin.  Breath is very complex; the rhythm and speed are obvious, but also there is the smoothness of the breath, whether the breathing is being done high or low in the chest.  A person’s speech is constantly changing according to how they feel; the vocal cords undergo subtle changes of tension according to one’s emotional state.  And I haven’t even mentioned pheromones!  Again, at a profoundly unconscious level, we are constantly reading each other’s chemical signatures.  Apparently lap dancers who are taking contraceptive pills take, on average, significantly less tips. (“significantly” in this context refers to statistical analysis; i.e. not a small enough difference to be mere chance) It is believed that men are unconsciously aware of which women are fertile!  From a negative perspective, have you ever tried to hide, from someone who knows you, that you are feeling angry or worried?  You might carefully control you posture; your body language, but they might hear it in your voice, see it in your skin tone, detect it in your breathing or be actually smelling it in your sweat.

The reason that those, who become proficient at Kung Fu, don’t often get picked on, is simply that they project their sense of self assurance, whether they realise it or not.  Other people are reading them, at an unconscious level, and what they read is not “potential victim” but instead they read “potentially dangerous!”

martial arts master doing wing chun bong sao in dojo

Tao Te Kung Fu – The Influences of Wing Chun

Tao Te Kung Fu is a style that has many influences from traditional Kung Fu styles, real world experience and critical feedback through teaching and testing.  It began in 2009 when the two founding instructors, Sifu Mark Ringer and Sifu William Bridgman decided to work together and combine their experience and backgrounds in teaching, martial arts and real-world application.

History and Origins of Wing Chun

One of, if not perhaps, the most influential style in Tao Te Kung Fu is the Chinese system of Wing Chun.  Wing Chun is thought to be approximately 300 years old.  Legend says that it was founded by a Buddhist nun named Ng Mui who then taught it to her first student Yim Wing Chun, wherefrom the name of the system was born.  This is why Wing Chun as a system roughly translates to ‘beautiful spring’ which is not descriptive of the efficient and deadly aims of a martial art but a 300 year old female Chinese name.

One of the most famous modern Wing Chun practitioners has to be Yip Man who has been popularized in the recent Ip Man films.  His students still teach today although the styles have all branched off and adapted to create their own lineages.  This is why you will often see different spellings of the system such as Wing Chun, Wing Tsun, Ving Tsun, Wing Tchun and others.  Jeet Kune Do, the style developed by Bruce Lee also incorporates Wing Chun along with boxing, fencing, Escrima/Kali and other systems.

How Wing Chun Works as a Style

All of the variations of Wing Chun revolve around close range ‘in fighting’.  You spot opportunities to bridge the gap between you and your opponent, often using seeking arm techniques and sticking to your opponent’s arms. From that position any number of things could happen from trapping and pinning to yielding or attacking.  This is often where the practice of ‘Chi Sao‘ comes in to play.

Chi Sao, often referred to as ‘sticky arms’, is a partner drill where you start off in a repeating rolling arms type of movement and then either work through set patterns, almost like two man forms/katas, or try to react to what your opponent does in a slightly more freestyle manner.

Wing Chun focuses on tight & efficient defence and fast, light, mostly linear attacks.  These reflect principles such as focus on direct attacks and economy of motion that contribute towards its success.

Criticisms of Wing Chun

One criticism of Wing Chun is a lack of powerful strikes as the focus is on efficiency, speed and directness.  Another is that the footwork and kicking is too rigid and static.  When compared to other systems these could be justified.  Stories of how and where the system was used could explain why Wing Chun has developed this way.  Wing Chun is said to have been used in Hong Kong (not famous for it abundant city space) on small rooftops, for training and less friendly scrapping in one’s spare time.  This could very much explain why people weren’t lunging around with huge strikes, kicks and steps because although you might land a good one on your opponent, you could risk falling to your death!

Another criticism is the often over-reliance on the Chi Sao drills and lack of sparring and more realistic drills.  After some basic training, many schools focus very heavily on this Chi Sao.  This could indeed be a floor.  Overusing a reaction drill, good for a purpose as it may be, could lead to practitioners expecting real world attackers to behave in exactly the same way as their class mates do while practicing this one particular drill which, would obviously be a mistake.  This could well be more to do with particular instructors rather than a system as whole however.

Every martial art has strengths and weaknesses.  Even calling something a weakness may not be justified sometimes.  For example, you could say that the lack of kicks in boxing is a weakness.  But that is like criticising any unarmed combat system for not teaching you how to shoot an automatic rifle…  Many fighting systems are shaped by their focused purpose and their origins.  You could always say that system A is lacking in X but some systems are just more focused in their scope than others and this isn’t always a bad thing.  Few people will deny that if you want to learn to punch in certain ways to certain targets with certain rules, boxing is a pretty good option.

Wing Chun in Tao Te Kung Fu

Tao Te Kung Fu respects and maintains the strengths of Wing Chun and it’s principles, while being open to ideas from other martial arts that could fill any needs that Wing Chun doesn’t or perhaps was intentionally never designed to meet, such as certain weapons, long distance footwork or meditation practice.  In fact, the influence it has was such that the original name for the system was going to be Tao Te Wing Chun Kung Fu.  The predominant reason it changed was due to the length of the name!

The foundation and intermediate forms are named after the Wing Chun blocking technique the form is based around such as Taan Sao or Bong Sao.  This is one of the many places you will find the Wing Chun aspects and homage paid to this popular and influential style.

Asian woman in suit with hands clasped showing focus and calmness

31. Attitude

Attitude is the key to understanding so much of what we do.  When we enter the training studio, right attitude demands that we bow.  It is a way of saying that in this place we leave the other world behind; the world of materialistic capitalism, the world of ego, the world of competition.  The bow says that in this place we have come together to learn, to improve ourselves, to work together, to help each other.  The bow says, ‘I don’t know everything and am willing to learn’.  We have a formality and level of respect that is often missing in life, and when it is evident, is so often insincere.

If you are training at home, even if you are entirely on your own, I suggest that you always start by taking a moment to adopt the same attitude.  Take a long slow breath, look in a mirror if that helps, and bow your head a little, before straightening your back and pulling your shoulders back.  Remember you are training to be a warrior.  Perhaps you will never need any of your martial art skills.  That is not the point.  You are changing your self-identity. 

Kung Fu is almost primarily about attitude.  Kung Fu really means something like mastery through discipline.  We choose to become masters of a skill, but in doing so we become masters of our lives.  We know it will take years and will never be completed, but that’s ok, in life it is so often the journey that matters, the attempt, not necessarily the success, that matters.  After all, the finishing line for all of us is the grave and we try to make the race count for something along the way.  It is the way that the skills and personal changes that Kung Fu brings overflows into the rest of our lives that makes it such an amazing transformational discipline.

It is a common principle that the more one puts in to something, the more one gets out.  Whether physical exercise, academic study, gardening or a relationship this is generally the case.  It is the discipline and hard work that produces the most satisfying results.  (I didn’t say the highest results, I could employ a gardener and have a finer garden, but my personal satisfaction would be less)

One could think of Tao Te Kung Fu as the process of taking control.  I begin by being aware of myself; what I sense from outside of me and what’s going on inside.  I become aware of my emotions in each moment and how they change with external stimulus.  I become aware of my motivations, my ambitions and my desires.  The next stage is to begin to take control of my own experiences and how I choose to react to them; I’m recreating myself, I am my own work in progress.  The next stage is to become aware of others and learn to be a positive influence on them; to read the needs of others and find ways to meet them.  Eventually one becomes a master of one’s own life including the world outside.  If you fear some of those around you, you can’t focus on their needs.  When you fear no man, you can care for all; this is why martial skills are integral all the way.  Whether one is learning the control of one’s body in three dimensional space, or learning to increase one’s sensitivity to some stimulus, while decreasing others, or learning to manage one’s emotions and the physiological responses that accompany them, or learning to read and then influence another’s intentions, Kung Fu is a process that includes all of these skills.

Another aspect of our training is a general intention of not fighting.  In Tao Te Kung Fu we place a heavy emphasis on training to be able to end violent situations as fast as possible.  The best solution is to have avoided any confrontational situation in the first place, second to that would be, should a confrontation arise, avoiding violence, but if violence starts the gaol should be to end it fast; one doesn’t get embroiled in a fight, one simply drops the aggressor.  When trained, you shouldn’t need to wonder whether you can down the other guy, but merely how to.  It’s not about beating anyone; it’s simply about stopping the violence fast without getting hurt.  No ego, no competition, just a choice to take control of situations that arise.

Asian man in white uniform doing Tai Chi in park

30. Economy of Motion

Most people will be aware that economy of motion implies, in most cases finding the shortest line between two points.  In Kung Fu that is exemplified by using a straight punch; the straightest, shortest route to the target.  Get in close, keep it tight, relax and unleash fast effective blows.  In many ways, the one-inch punch is the ultimate expression of economy of motion.  But it is so much more.

Economy of motion is an essential element within the whole philosophy of Tao Te Kung Fu.  The psychologist E. R. Guthrie back in 1952 defined “skill” as “the ability to bring about some end result with the maximum certainty and minimum outlay of energy, or of time and energy.”  This is a beautiful fit with the way we train.

The more anxious one gets, the higher one’s level of emotional arousal, the less one is able to competently perform complex manoeuvres.  First, the fine motor skills go at around 115 heart beats per minute, then the multi-movement actions go at around 145 heartbeats per minute, and by the time you get to 175 you are able to perform only simple movements using the large muscles.  This is one of the reasons that the more precise and complex techniques are only taught once students have a few years of training behind them; the training teaches them to remain calmer and more in control, and therefore able to use more complex techniques and the fine motor skills required for things like pressure points.  Until one is competent enough to have the confidence and with it, the relaxed metabolism, to stay calm, one can’t use such complex and precise techniques.

All techniques are therefore stripped of all superfluous movements.  The aim is the shortest motion, the quickest route to the objective, the least strength required, the technique that will achieve the fastest, easiest result.

This all means that the training methods must be the best, using the most comprehensive and effective programmes to get students to the highest level of ability in the shortest time.  The first principle of fighting strategy is of winning in the fastest time; around 1.5 to 2 seconds should finish a fight.  Because our aim has been to develop a system that, as far as is possible, anyone can use, all techniques should require the least strength.  Which relates to another aspect of the style, which is targeting that achieves maximum effect with minimum power, while not relying on the tiny targeting of precise pressure points.  For example, while there are plenty of points on the head that will finish a fight quickly, they are quite difficult to hit, partly because of size and partly because people automatically protect their head vigorously.  By comparison, the neck has many vulnerable points, so many that one does not need to be very precise; you’re simply likely to hit one.

So if economy of motion achieves maximum certainty of outcome, with minimum expenditure of energy in the shortest time it is synonymous with what constitutes ‘skill.’

It is not enough to be effective in martial arts.  Most styles, when performed by a competent practitioner will work, but to be efficient, to use the best economy of motion, means a system will work for more people and better, quicker and more easily.

water ripple

26. Fluidity

Some fighting styles would encourage you to train so that you become harder, stronger and more able to take out the obstacle before you; sure, that’s one way.
The one thing in life that always seems to get its way is water.  It will always find a way to the sea.  Put a boulder in it’s way; it just goes around.  Block the stream altogether and it will patiently build up and become a lake, only until it can find the one point that gives way first, then off it goes again.  It may take a totally different path now, but it will get to the sea and always by the easiest route. 
It is an axiom that in any system the one with the most flexibility will generally win.  A business man who is able to switch from one type of business to another as the market changes will tend to succeed.  A farmer who can change to different crops as the climate or demand changes will tend to flourish.

This tendency can be seen from either a positive or a negative perspective.

While we tell our kids that cheats seldom prosper, the truth is that the one who will step outside the rules, the one not confined to moral norms will tend to win.  They just won’t be winning at the game others thought they were playing.  If others stick to one set of rules and you don’t, you will get the better of them, you just won’t be playing the same game.  A game is the set of rules, you might get the better of your opponent by cheating, say, fouling in football, but don’t say you beat them at football; you stopped playing that the moment you abandoned the rules.

Socially, the one willing to step outside the norms (rules) of good manners will often win; if no one panders to your every whim, it’s probably because you aren’t likely to have a tantrum in public.
Of course, some people don’t get asked to play or taken out much!

Sometimes the following the way of least resistance is the result of laziness or fear of change.  Sometimes we need to stop and ask; whose game am I playing?  Who set these rules?  Do I want to play this game?  Are you stuck in a rut, a path to the sea, not made by you?  Are you carrying on because it’s the easiest way?  Sometimes it takes just a little effort or indeed courage, to switch courses.  When a river is diverted at one point, it doesn’t need to know the whole route it will now take, it will carry on and find the way, but one change, at one point, can set it on a different path for the next thousand miles. 


There are times when to relax and go with the flow, to be flexible, to not resist a force, but to yield, slide out of the way, go around and take the easy way, is the best thing to do.  Then again, there are times when a small action will begin a wave that will build and become a tsunami that shakes the earth.  Sometimes to hold back water as it builds up weight means it can be released with devastating power.  There are times when a small dam will send a stream to one side of a watershed and one valley will be nourished while another has a drought.

Realising that there are many possible ways of responding and acting is part of remaining flexible; instinctively and immediately knowing the best way to act in any given situation requires the development of wisdom over a lifetime.  Often the best one can do is to be aware of what the situation is and the possibilities available.  To use a simple example:  If you realise that you are in a potentially vulnerable/dangerous situation, you can be aware of possible threats and possible escape routes and possible responses.  You don’t have to be constantly paranoid, just have an awareness level that is in tune with the risk.  If you are unaware that you are even in a dangerous situation, if anything happens, it will be a surprise and instead of acting with any of the possible responses, shock will make you freeze.  This is true in all areas of life; whether you are trading on the stock exchange, driving on a motorway, falling in love or walking home at night.

Space shuttle launching

25. Inertia

It is so often the case that the most useful lessons (and, it appears, the hardest to apply) are also the simplest to understand.  In Yorkshire they say “If things don’t change, they’ll stay as they are.”  We know it.  So why does it take so long to sink in?  I heard a definition of insanity that described it as doing the same thing repeatedly in the expectation of getting a different result.  Someone will say, “I’m on a diet at the moment” and you reply, “Weren’t you on a diet last time we met, a year ago?”  “Yes” they respond, sheepishly “I seem to always be on a diet.”  And you want to scream at them “Well it’s not working, is it!”  If what you are doing is not working do something different.  Make a change.

If you want things to change you have to do something different.  Start something new.  Consider how to achieve what you want or where you want to be, then work out the steps to get there, and then take the first step.  You can only achieve any goal by taking action.

When life is raining blows on you, if all you do is try to find ways to block them, eventually you will get beaten down.  When you crisis manage your life, constantly on the back foot, just dealing with one problem before the next one comes.  When you just defend yourself, blocking one blow after another, all you can ever do is postpone your inevitable defeat.  Sooner or later, the blow will be too hard, or you won’t react in time or you’ll misjudge the angle of attack, and you will go down.

Move.  Step aside.  Do something different.  Do something that will get you results.  Attack! (It’s odd how often what you learn in Kung Fu applies to life in general.)
We all know this.  So why don’t we?  Because, change is scary.  Action is scary.  To walk you have to alternate from stepping into air, chaos, and your foot landing, order.  It is only in the times of chaos that we are able to move forward or change direction.  Another problem is that the feeling that you’re losing crushes your spirit and takes the fight out of you.  I once had to deal with a guy outside a night club who was just slapping his girlfriend around the head; quite hard.  She cowered against a wall, her arms wrapped over her face.  I don’t know how many times he’d struck her; several in the time it took me to get across the road.  When I asked her why she put up with it, she said that if she moved out of the way or tried to hit back, she was afraid it would make him angry.  If you hadn’t guessed yet, yes, when he got angry, he would slap her.  She just didn’t believe she could change things.  Only when you believe you can change things, can you start to consider how to.

When my children were young, if something appeared to be beyond them, I would ask “How do you eat an elephant?” and they would answer with a learned response “One bite at a time.”  I  know we’ve all heard it before.  “The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.”  If you can take one step, you can take another and another.  It might take time, but the sooner you start, the sooner you’ll arrive.  Each step makes success more believable and only when it becomes believable is it ever going to be achievable.  It’s the first step that is the hardest.  If you can learn to make the first step an instinct, an automatic reaction, the rest of the journey becomes believable and therefore possible.  Taking positive action can become a lifestyle.

The best way to raise enough courage to take the first step is to truly visualise the end result so realistically, with so many details, that it becomes an emotional event and the decision to act will follow, caught up in the heat like a wildfire of emotional energy.

Once you have made one journey that looked impossible, the next will not be so daunting. It’s your first marathon, I’m told, that’s the hardest.

Kung Fu literally means “achieving success/excellence though hard/disciplined work.”  Disciplined in this context means that you take one step at a time and keep taking them.

Man doing martial arts in park

Can I learn martial arts at 40?

Over the years I have been asked every version of this question from “Is it too late to learn martial arts at 20?” to “Am I too old to learn Kung Fu at 60?”

My Tai Kwon Do instructor was Korean and he had started training at about 4 years old and was a black by the time he was 10.  That, he used to assure me, was when he really started to learn, having mastered all the basic techniques without needing to think about them.  Not unlike a musician who has learned how to play all the scales and arpeggios on their instrument can really begin to develop their playing.  One of my grandchildren started at our academy when she was only 3 and in years to come probably won’t even remember learning her basic skills just like she won’t remember learning to walk or use a spoon. 

There is a saying, “the best time to plant a tree is 30 year ago, but the next best time is now”

That about sums it up.  If you could go back in time start learning years ago, that would be ideal.  You can’t, so the next best option is now.  I started learning my first martial art when I was 11, but over the years I have learned several different styles and each time, I have started from the beginning.  I’m not going to pretend that it isn’t easier to learn any martial art if you are already an expert in another.  A good soccer player would pick up rugby faster than most people, a painter of water colours will certainly master oil painting quicker than a complete beginner.  But you, whoever you are and however old you are also have transferable skills.  Can you take a step?  Can you push a door shut?  Can you see and catch a ball?  Then you are not starting from nowhere, you already have a head-start.  If you look at Tao Te Kung Fu as taught by Kung Fu Living, you will see that every detail is broken down into simple movements that, if you can step and push a door closed, you can certainly learn.

It also depends on what you want to do with your skills.  If you want to become a tournament competitor, I’m going to point out that there is a reason you don’t see many professional boxers over 40.  Some styles were originally designed with only very fit, strong and athletic young men in mind.  Some styles have developed to become the equivalent of circus acts and only really suit those with such a genetic predisposition.  However, if you want to learn how to actually defend yourself in a real confrontation?  If you want to improve your coordination, strength, flexibility or balance?  If you want to reduce your anxiety and stress, while improving your self-esteem and confidence?  Then you are never too old to start learning with Kung Fu Living.  The program requires no particular level of fitness or pre-existing skills; it simply requires you to do several simple activities each day and your steady progress is mapped out for you.

You can’t change the past but right now, this moment, you have in your hands the power to change your future.